My reaction was not of shock. As we know this stuff happens way more than what people want to believe at all levels. My first concern is with this individuals that came forward.
I am a parent and what I believe is the best thing to to is to educate ourselves on all issues. Sex abuse, bulling harrasment, neglect.... so we are aware of the signs and are better prepared to ask questions to the organizations to make sure they have prevention protocal inplace. First and formost, have the conversation with our children. Bring it out on the table for discussion. It shouldnt be the elephant in the closet.
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If you could tell people one thing they probably don't know to help prevent child sex abuse -- in or out of athletic situations -- what would it be?
It would be to educate ourselves. Demand our youth orgs have prevention programs in place. Deputize the 98% of good people with the tools and convidence to ask the tough questions that so often get pushed to the side. We in Canada, because of our case, train over 200,000 youth leaders on abuse bulling harrasment education. It is mandatory. Either the organization has these values or they don't. My kids will not be signed up with any organization that does not have these pieces in place.
I believe this is not just a sports issue. It happens a lot everywhere. After 14 yrs of learning how best to educate, we found we needed to make prevention education mandatory for every youth leader. 98% of people involved with our youth are good people and want to do the right thing. We need to empower all bystanders with the knowledge and tools to deal effectively. So you know: USA Triathalon and USA Cycling USA rowing all have mandatory eduction in these areas. They use our program. Check it out: www.respectgroupinc.com
Because of the power imbalance. People are scared of their authorities and also the issue. That is why we need to educate ourselves on these sensitive issues
I do not see any difference?
Elie Wiesel quote sums up the Penn State situation: "I swore never to be silent whenever and wherever human beings endure suffering and humiliation. We must always take sides. Neutrality helps the oppressor, never the victim. Silence encourages the tormentor, never the tormented." Why did those who witnessed the attacks not stop them? Let this remind us all when we see suffering to step in and do the right thing. It is easier than living with the same of doing nothing.
I know in canada we have a legal obligation to report and knowledge of abuse to authorities. I think it was wrong
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