I wasn't able to participate in last week's chat, but I wanted to comment on the topic of what to do with inherited furniture. My brother and I recently had a family meeting with our parents to discuss wills, end-of-life decisions, etc., though our parents are still young and in good health (best time to do it, right?) During our talk, my dad said that there were one or two small items he and mom would be happy to know we kept, but that we shouldn't feel obligated to keep anything we inherited. I thought this was sweet and practical of him to state right out. My mom smiled and nodded, but as dad continued stressing that the furniture etc. would be ours totally and that we shouldn't feel guilty about selling or getting rid of it, mom's smile faded a little. Dad kept on, telling us that if we wanted, we could just cart everything out of the house onto the lawn, stick price tags on it all, and have a yard sale. At this point mom piped up with a quiet, "Yes, although maybe if you put a tag on something really special, we could make the thunder rumble a bit or something." They're so wonderful, and what a special gift they gave us by openly discussing their wishes for when the time comes. I wanted to share the story with you. :)