I was recently accepted to my first-choice program for an advanced degree, however, I think I've, unwittingly, alienated the department liaison with new students. ...
Before I applied, I sent a short, polite e-mail with some basic questions about the program to admissions, who forwarded them to this particular person. She wrote back with one-world, unclear answers. I sent another polite reply asking for clarification and again received short, curt answers and apologizing for not understanding. ... A few months later, I was weighing five offers and this school was very late (nearly three weeks) with its decision. Again, I politely e-mailed her, letting her know the school was my top choice and asking whether she had an estimate regarding admissions decisions. ... She finally e-mailed back "yes," which with no formal offer letter, replied, "Thanks for your e-mail. Does "yes" mean I've been accepted?" I got a curt "yes."
After I was admitted, I went for a visit and found the professors to be warm, welcoming and appreciative that I'd made an effort and was interested in the program. ... I fear that this is a preview of things to come in the program, but I've talked to current students who assure me she's nice and just stressed out.
How do I repair this relationship now before school begins in January? I have a million questions I need to ask and am hesitant to ask a single one. I hate to have an attitude that I'm paying nearly $50k/year for this program and deserve some answers, because they have a wait list of nearly 400. ... Thank you!