YES! to everything you wrote -- and wrote well -- with the possible exception of your glee that Mr. Lopez turned his former employers down when offered a chance to return to work. Of course, he is within his rights to stop working for them, but there may be a missed opportunity in making that choice.
I appreciate that Loez says he wants to return to school and move on with his life, but given that the company reconsidered their original position, true leadership in this case might hinge on being willing to accpet that people can learn from past mistakes and need the ongoing participation of those who showed them the path to positive growth.
The extent to which we hang in with other people and other institutions, even when they have made a mistake, is also a leadership trait we often lack. Ironically, the inability to do so is directly related to the "black or white" approach to leadership which you so wisely decry.



